I've made both good and bad decisions in my life time. In looking back I can honestly say many of the bad decisions where made when I was under pressure or feeling overwhelmed.
It's that react or respond thing. Taking the time to step back, take a deep breath and let the feeling of being overwhelmed leave you before making a decision can make a difference between a good decision and a bad decision.
My friend, Richard Flint, has some wise words on making decisions: Never make a decision when you feel overwhelmed. This is such an important thought! Every time you feel overwhelmed you are mentally weak and gathering emotions. This is the wrong time to make decisions. Any decision you make will be more emotionally charged than mentally thought-out. This means what you are doing is not a decision; it is an emotional reaction that will demand you come back and deal with it all over again. That will just steal more energy.
Remember, if you can't manage your pace, you can't control your life.
For more on Richard Flint, check out hiw website at www.RichardFlint.com and Friend
Tuesday, July 7, 2009
I Love Customers Who Tell Others They Love Gateway
Last Friday, we were closed, but I came in to monitor the phones and keep the doors open for buyers and sellers who often stop by without an appointment to drop off escrow papers, pick up a free starter kit, get their check or just have questions.
I'm so glad I decided to come in because mid-morning, two sisters who are selling brought in their signed purchase contract. While they were here another seller stopped by to get her proceeds check. They all started talking to each other about how wonderful Gateway Title is to work with when you are selling property!
I know I was beaming with pride as they talked.
The Gateway Team members put so much of themselves into each transaction, and it shows.
As tough as this real estate market can be, there are some rewards that can't be measured in dollars.
My Thanks to all of our buyers and sellers who are not afraid to let real estate agents and lenders know that Gateway should "title" their purchase, sale or refinance. It is the consumer's choice.
I'm so glad I decided to come in because mid-morning, two sisters who are selling brought in their signed purchase contract. While they were here another seller stopped by to get her proceeds check. They all started talking to each other about how wonderful Gateway Title is to work with when you are selling property!
I know I was beaming with pride as they talked.
The Gateway Team members put so much of themselves into each transaction, and it shows.
As tough as this real estate market can be, there are some rewards that can't be measured in dollars.
My Thanks to all of our buyers and sellers who are not afraid to let real estate agents and lenders know that Gateway should "title" their purchase, sale or refinance. It is the consumer's choice.
Friday, July 3, 2009
A RETURN TO SIMPLER TIMES
I'm at the office today. Due to the holiday tomorrow, we are officially closed today!
Remember when the holiday was THE holiday?
We debated staying open to take care of our customers - would they assume we would be open or closed? I came in incase someone needed to talk to us.I don't mind. This gives me a chance to write to you.
Most of the lenders we work with are closed. The county offices are closed. Our office is closed and the Gateway family and staff are getting a much deserved long week end.
As I ponder and explore my thoughts,I see many families returning to the simpler times that many of us grew up with. A return to inexpensive gatherings that are catered by the cooks in the family creating their summer specialties instead of hiring a professional caterer. A ride to a near by spot instead of air trip to a resort.To some this may be sad, but to many families it is an opportunity to learn new/old values. I used to worry about today's kids and how much spoiling we have all been guilty of. This is our chance to teach them to appreciate the many wonderful things in life all around us!And yes appreciate the all mighty dollar and what it takes to have the essentials of life.
As many folks struggle, let us not forget that we have freedom to worship and love of family and good friends .... we will come out of this stronger, wiser, and the next generation will know the simpler gifts of life.
Remember when the holiday was THE holiday?
We debated staying open to take care of our customers - would they assume we would be open or closed? I came in incase someone needed to talk to us.I don't mind. This gives me a chance to write to you.
Most of the lenders we work with are closed. The county offices are closed. Our office is closed and the Gateway family and staff are getting a much deserved long week end.
As I ponder and explore my thoughts,I see many families returning to the simpler times that many of us grew up with. A return to inexpensive gatherings that are catered by the cooks in the family creating their summer specialties instead of hiring a professional caterer. A ride to a near by spot instead of air trip to a resort.To some this may be sad, but to many families it is an opportunity to learn new/old values. I used to worry about today's kids and how much spoiling we have all been guilty of. This is our chance to teach them to appreciate the many wonderful things in life all around us!And yes appreciate the all mighty dollar and what it takes to have the essentials of life.
As many folks struggle, let us not forget that we have freedom to worship and love of family and good friends .... we will come out of this stronger, wiser, and the next generation will know the simpler gifts of life.
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